MY God....how can this get so out of hand. It's an "ant hill", not a mountain. If someone makes it, they contribute it FREE of any recourse. If the receiver feels they have received something outstanding to "them - the receiver", then they MAY provide a the gift of a donation and / or "buy the creator of the offering a cup". In any case, the receiver gets the WHOLE of it FREE and if the receiver is feeling particularly gracious then and ONLY then etc, etc, etc. MY GOD!